One of the beautiful things in life and one which is not easily understood is the way of a man with a maiden (love relationships). My mentor says, “Love and relationships must be enjoyed as we go through this life. Life can be tough but inspite all its challenges, God brings good people along life’s journey so you can enjoy love.” ~ Rev. Simon Ampofo.

“Enjoy life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your vain life that He has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun.” ~ Ecclesiastes 9:9

Inspite of all the difficulties in life, may God bring a loved ones your way who will make you enjoy life, even at the times of difficulty. 

Songs of Solomon 4:10-11 says, “How beautiful is your love, my sister, my bride! HOW MUCH BETTER IS YOUR LOVE than wine, and the fragrance of your oils than any spice! Your lips drip nectar, my bride; honey and milk are under your tongue; the fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon.” 

Eish, raps paah nie (sweet words)! But see it all comes down to the fact that a Godly relationship must be sweet, fragrant and have flavour. Love must be better than toil. Love relationships must be enjoyed and not endured. Don’t stay in abusive relationships because of love.

Listen, in the beginning God instituted love and relationships in Eden (His presence, a place of delight). Remember, in His presence there’s fullness of joy. And so God says: “It is not good for man to be alone.” Which means it is a good thing to get a partner you love. “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.”

Our love relationships must have flavour and sweetness. I pray that you will enjoy your relationships and not just endure it (To be continued)
Stay blessed and kindly share with friends and family.